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Question:
So I had this dream, one that I've been having a while. Initially it was just me kissing my boyfriend on the cheek for the very first time. But for some reason last night in my dream when I kissed him on the cheek, he kissed me back. Long story short it became sexual. We talk to each other about everything, except for sex, because we've never really been interested in it. We've both never done anything sexual. I feel bad for not telling him about my dream, but I still don't understand it. Help?
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
I’m no expert on dreams, but it could be a number of things. One, it could be that you’re worried about your relationship going further than you’re ready for, and you think that sex is the next step. However it could also mean that you’re ready to have sex with your boyfriend, or it’s your subconscious mind thinking about the next step. Either way, before you act on your dreams, make sure that you are absolutely 100% ready to take the next step if that’s what you think your dream was telling you. good luck and let me know if you have any more questions!
Question:
My two best friends both like each other.. and I know that their going to get together sometime soon.. I'm afraid about whats going to happen when their going out.. i understand they'll want to spend time alone but even recently one of them has said 'maybe they should spend some time alone' and i'm guessing that's a hint. I'm just scared of losing my friends. :-(
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
You need to talk things over with your friends. Don’t worry about it right now, but when the time comes that they are officially together or whatever, talk to them and let them know that you’re happy for them and you’ll let them have their time alone as long as they promise not to completely leave you behind. Also, i would suggest starting to also hang out with someone else who is single or who is not part of that relationship because there may be times where they hang out alone and you might feel lonely. I’m not telling you to get a replacement friend or anything, just an alternative to keep your mind off of being lonely when they want to be alone. The one thing that should never happen is when a relationship comes between a friendship. As long as you guys talk things over before any ditching happens, you should be fine. good luck!
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Question:
Hi! I hope you can help me. This year i became friends with really cool girls at my school. girls so cool i never thought i'd be friends with them. we started hanging out on the weekends. a lot. but at school they hung out less and less with me although they remained close to each other. now some of them don't even look up when they pass me in the hallways. i didn't do anything out of the ordinary. it was so sudden and now i'm no longer confident. what can i do? i want to be friends with them!
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
if the girls are ignoring you, take it as a sign that you should let go of that friendship and find people who truly want to be your friends. I know that popularity seems really important to you right now, but do you really want to waste your time on a group of girls who ignore you in the hallways at school? You want friends who like you for you and who make an effort to be your friend as much as you make an effort to be theirs. If it’s a “one way street” on either side, it’s not worth your time. good luck!
Question:
Kelly, I'm confused. This friendship sucks. I'm used as a servant to my classmates. I have told them that i'm not their servant, but it turns up bad. It's like all my classmates hates me. I'm confused. Should i be their servant so we could make up? I don't want to do that. It's complicated. I hope you can solve this problem. thankyou to make this website dear!
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
You need to learn how to say no. Next time they make you do something, say no and don’t let them force you to do anything just so you can try to build a friendship with them. no one is worth being friends with you when they treat you like a servant. you deserve much better than that and true friends will come along soon i promise you! you just have to look for them in the right places.
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Asked by Anonymous
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yay!!!!!!!
Question:
Lately, Im so confused about a friend of mine. We are together in school as much as we can and then we are texting a lot. Everybody says he likes me and that we look like a couple. Everyone ask me if we are together. At first, I only saw him like a friend but lately i dont know how i feel towards him anymore and i dont know what to do, because i dont either if he likes me or he is just flirting with me like with any other girl...
Asked by Anonymous
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In my opinion, it just seems like a really close friendship. The only way that you could be sure though is if you ask him, or try to see who he likes. Guys usually flirt with girls sometimes without realizing it, and sometimes because that’s just how their personality is, but you’ll never know until you find out for yourself.
senior prom tonight!
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sorry guys I’ve been really busy! I’ll try to come back soon but as the year is wrapping up and i get ready to leave for school next year, things are going to be kind of hectic and i won’t have a lot of time! bear with me!
